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During my marriage, I made someone else my north star instead of my own goals and joy. While I take full accountability for that choice, I know now that my future has to be rooted in Always Becoming, the best version of myself, the happiest, the most peaceful, and the most stable. For me, that means caring for every layer of life: health, stability, joy, peace, and purpose.

After my divorce, I made sure I did not stop living. I took myself to concerts, wrestling events, dinners, and road trips, and learned to enjoy life without waiting for permission. I called it, letting the wind take me somewhere. On September 19, 2025, I saw a TikTok about someone’s 40 Before 40 list. It reminded me of when I wanted to do a 30 Before 30 but let it pass me by. This time, I chose not to forget. I made my own list, a mix of big milestones, small joys, and deeply personal goals like bariatric surgery, which I have been preparing for since my last trip to Monterrey in 2024.

I had shared pieces of my life through BeeYouXOXO before, but back then it did not have a true why or compass. Now I return to it with clarity. This is not a polished highlight reel. It is a space about sharing the process honestly, with humor and heart. It is about celebrating the becoming.