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  • Alt Text: Young Mexican-American girl playing goalkeeper on a dirt soccer field, symbolizing childhood World Cup memories and a love of soccer passed down through family.

    Why the World Cup Sounds Like Home

    06/11/202606/11/2026 Soundtracks of Life

    Before I knew what a delantero (forward) was, I knew what “GOOOOOOOOOL DE MÉXICOOOOOOO” sounded…

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  • Latina woman smiling alone in the crowd at a concert, stage lights glowing behind her

    I Started Going to Concerts Alone and Never Stopped

    06/09/202606/08/2026 Solo Adventures, Soundtracks of Life

    I had anxiety about going to concerts alone, or doing anything alone really. I still…

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  • Latina woman in black midi dress at a celebration after gastric bypass surgery feeling confident and beautiful

    The Dress That Waited for Me: My Gastric Bypass Story

    06/06/202606/06/2026 Bariatric Journey, Lifestyle & Becoming

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  • Latina woman looking out at a Viva Aerobus plane in Monterrey Mexico with Cerro de la Silla mountains in the background before deciding to get bariatric surgery

    Why I Kept My Bariatric Surgery Private

    06/05/202606/05/2026 Bariatric Journey, Lifestyle & Becoming

    There is a moment I think about a lot. I am sitting in my aunt’s…

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  • Illustrated portrait of Bee singing at a concert after gallbladder surgery, stage lights behind her

    Gallbladder Surgery Did Not Break My Spirit

    06/04/202606/05/2026 Bariatric Journey, Lifestyle & Becoming, Soundtracks of Life

    When January Had Other Plans I woke up on January 17th ready to finally resume…

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  • 40 before 40 list BeeYouXOXO

    How Failing My 40 Before 40 List Set Me Free

    06/04/202606/04/2026 Bariatric Journey, Lifestyle & Becoming

    The 40 Before 40 List I Wrote I wrote my 40 Before 40 list in…

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  • My 40 Before 40 List

    My 40 Before 40 List

    09/21/202506/06/2026 Lifestyle & Becoming

    I turn 40 on April 25, 2026, and I want to honor that milestone by…

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  • Illustrated portrait of Bee writing her 40 Before 40 list in a cozy apartment with Oliver sleeping nearby

    Why I Started BeeYouXOXO and 40 Before 40

    09/20/202506/04/2026 Lifestyle & Becoming
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    Honoring Life at 40 While I have always said I wanted a bucket list or…

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I’m Brenda, but you can call me Bee. I’m based in San Antonio and documenting life in my 40s through concerts, bariatric life, creativity, everyday adventures, and moments with my dog Oliver. BeeYouXOXO is rooted in one idea: Always Becoming.
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  • Latina woman in black midi dress at a celebration after gastric bypass surgery feeling confident and beautiful
    The Dress That Waited for Me: My Gastric Bypass Story
  • Latina woman looking out at a Viva Aerobus plane in Monterrey Mexico with Cerro de la Silla mountains in the background before deciding to get bariatric surgery
    Why I Kept My Bariatric Surgery Private
  • Illustrated portrait of Bee singing at a concert after gallbladder surgery, stage lights behind her
    Gallbladder Surgery Did Not Break My Spirit

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